{"id":2316,"date":"2021-08-24T23:10:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-24T23:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/disciplestoday.org\/clone\/clone\/2021\/08\/24\/god-is-our-father\/"},"modified":"2023-06-02T06:59:24","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T04:59:24","slug":"god-is-our-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/disciplestoday.org\/clone\/god-is-our-father\/","title":{"rendered":"God is Our Father"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! <\/span> – 1 John 3:1 <\/span><\/span><\/h3>

God is our Father and those of us in Christ are his specially adopted children\u2014no truth in the Bible is more exciting! The cost of this adoption is the blood of Christ, which should humble us and fill us with a depth of gratitude that becomes our greatest motivation to serve. In fact, the fatherly love of God is what we are to imitate as we serve others in his name. Paul said it this way in Ephesians 5:1-2: Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. As we imitate him and live a life of love, we surely must develop his heart for children. <\/span><\/p>

How does the love of God show up in his treatment of us? Keep in mind that this is the kind of love that we are to imitate as disciples and show to the world. <\/span><\/p>

Sacrificial Love <\/span><\/p>

From his first contact with man until the present, God has shown himself to be a giver, not a taker. His concern is never what we can do for him, but only what he can do for us. He is absolutely selfless in his relationship to mankind. He gives and gives and gives some more. He is a Servant of servants, which explains how he can keep blessing us when we are unlovely, undeserving and unappreciative. <\/span><\/p>

God does not take our sins against him personally, get his feelings hurt and pull his heart back. He keeps on giving in the hope that his kindness will once again lead us to repentance (Romans 2:4). When Jesus said that the first prerequisite for following him was sacrificial self-denial (Luke 9:23), he was only calling us to do what God has always done. Sacrifice is what God\u2019s heart is all about\u2014it is not something that he does, but something that he is. As you serve others, we must imitate that. \ufeff <\/span><\/span><\/p>

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Respectful Love <\/span><\/p>

God shows us respect by treating us as individuals and by expecting us to be the individuals we have been designed to be. He does not expect us to be like everyone else, but to be the best that we can be. The command to \u201ctrain a child in the way he should go\u201d (Proverbs 22:6) implies the need to understand who each person is and then help him to blossom into the plan of God for their life. Similarly, God does not try to force us into any mold that we were not made for, but patiently develops us into the mold for which we were originally designed for\u2014to be like Christ. <\/span><\/p>

\ufeff <\/span> In essence, God shows us respect in order to help us become respectable. His approach is never to make us earn his favor by our performance, but rather, he treats us with love in order to help us grow and mature. As we work with others, we must give them what they need as an impetus to move them in the direction God has planned for them. <\/span><\/p>

Resourceful Love <\/span><\/p>

God uses any and every means available to help us grow into becoming like him. He has a multiplicity of circumstances and people he can call into play for our guidance, and he works everything out for our good. And our ultimate good is \u201cto be conformed to the likeness of his Son\u201d (Romans 8:28\u201329). <\/span><\/p>

The greatest miracles, in my mind, are not the obvious ones in the Bible, but rather the everyday variety that are produced by God\u2019s orchestration of so many behind-the-scenes details. To make the application to us as people helpers, we need to be getting as much (behind-the-scenes) input and help from others as possible. As Proverbs 15:22 puts it, \u201c <\/span> Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed <\/span> .\u201d We must continually be learners if we are to be effective teachers. Don\u2019t be lazy and don\u2019t be prideful; get help to be your best, and get the help from all available sources. <\/span><\/p>

Positive Love <\/span><\/p>

God\u2019s love is positive in its expression to us. Positive reinforcement is one obvious demonstration of his kindness and gentleness. He knows exactly how to call us higher by encouraging us. It is easy to think that we help others improve by focusing on their weak points, believing that if they can just eliminate them, then they will really be great. The problem is that the other person\u2019s self-esteem can take a beating in the process. God is full of encouragement as he generously expresses his love and commitment to us. With this approach, we can face critiques with confidence. <\/span><\/p>

Protective Love <\/span><\/p>

God is protective of us, choosing to expose our weaknesses in embarrassing ways only when we are stubborn and prideful. He works gently as he leads us to see ourselves and to resolve to change. Many of us can remember times in our childhood when we were embarrassed by teachers or parents in front of our peers. Such deep hurts are not easily forgotten. Thankfully, God is not that kind of parent. He deals with us gently and sensitively (Isaiah 42:3). <\/span><\/p>

Determined Love <\/span><\/p>

God never gives up trying to mold our characters and hearts into his own image. Gentle he may be, but sentimental he is not! The definition of discipling as \u201cgentle pressure, relentlessly applied\u201d finds its highest application in God\u2019s approach with us. He never gives up and he never gives in. His attention to discipling is constant, for he always wants the best for his children. He perseveres with us far beyond what we can imagine. Just think of the story of the runaway son in Luke 15. No matter how long the rebellious son had been gone, the father in the story (representing God) never ceased to gaze at the horizon for any sign of his son\u2019s return. When he caught a glimpse of him at a great distance, he literally ran to his son, eagerly accepted his repentance, and then quickly arranged a celebration party of grand proportions. God is determined to save us and determined to help us become the best we can be. How quickly and easily we can be tempted to give up on others. And how unlike God we are when we do. <\/span><\/p>

As we look at these amazing qualities of God as our Father, let\u2019s determine to imitate them as fully as possible. He wants to express his love to others through us. Pray that others will feel his love through your love for them. Love like God loves, and both you and those around you will be filled with inexpressible joy. The love of God is the love of a perfect parent. Embrace it for yourself, and then share it with others. <\/span><\/p>

Learn more about the power of love in discipleship in Gordon\u2019s book, <\/span><\/span>The Power of Discipling<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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